The Natural

Overall, I’ll give The Natural an 8.5 out of 10 (and I’m a damn hard judge). There were things that were priceless. I learnt so much in one weekend, and just seeing the guys in action blew open my mind as to what is possible.

The weekend was an intense, tailored, one on one session with Coach Grant Wellington. For me the weekend was about transitioning from ‘pick-up-artist’ to natural seducer. For me, this is a tangible shift in approach and outlook.

Grant is a cool guy. Relaxed and comfortable, with a big warming smile. Effortlessly, it seemed, he made us laugh, relaxed us all and then drive us down some very deep roads indeed. Afterwards I felt that this had been one of the most important tasks in my life.

On the second day of workshop I’ve actually pulled the girl and have had my first one night stand in my life! Of course I wouldn’t have been able to do that without help from James.

I have already caught up with one of the girls I met on the workshop; things went damn well and she is chasing me up to meet again.

It was a revelation!!! In my book anyway! Grant is awesome! He turned everything I have learnt about Game over the last year and turned it on its head!! I loved it! No canned bullshit, no openers or silly routines, and especially no "advice" about women from someone who wouldn’t know what a woman thought if her ideas painted themselves yellow and danced on the table.

By the end of the night I got two numbers from two great girls who were both really into me. One of them kissed me on the lips and told me to call her.